Meeting someone special online isn't an uncommon tale these days, but when Cor and I connected through International Cupid, little did we know that we were about to embark on a journey filled with love, challenges, and beautiful cultural exchanges.
Our relationship officially began on June 21, 2023, just a few weeks after our initial encounter. Despite being oceans apart—me in the United States and Cor in the Philippines—we quickly discovered common ground in our shared values, particularly our deep love for family and our mutual experiences with loss.
The early days of our relationship were filled with frequent video chats and daily texts, helping us bridge the gap of distance and time zones. Openness and honesty became our pillars, ensuring there were no secrets between us.
One of the most enriching aspects of our relationship has been the exploration of each other's cultures. For me, embracing diversity has always been essential, and Cor's Filipino heritage has added vibrant colors to my worldview. Learning Tagalog and Cebuano has been a delightful challenge, and understanding cultural nuances like "Mano Po" and "tampo" has deepened my appreciation for Cor's background.
Communication has been our greatest tool in overcoming any cultural differences or misunderstandings. We've learned to talk things out patiently, explaining not just what we do, but why we do it in our respective cultures. Through this, we've shattered stereotypes and misconceptions, realizing that love knows no boundaries, and individuals are more than the labels placed upon them.
Our intimacy extends beyond physical closeness; it's rooted in respect, gratitude, and anticipation for the day we'll finally embrace in person. While video chats keep us connected, our conversations are filled with reminders of the tight hugs awaiting us when we finally meet.
Patience has been our constant companion throughout this journey. Whether it's navigating language barriers, time zones, or earning each other's trust, we've learned to approach every challenge with unwavering patience and understanding.
As our relationship approaches its one-year mark, we've both grown immensely. Cor has taught me to trust in myself and celebrate accomplishments, while I've helped her challenge societal expectations and embrace her independence.
Our next milestone? Cor's upcoming interview for a visitor visa to the United States. If all goes well, she'll be here to celebrate our one-year anniversary, and we've already begun planning a memorable time together. From Las Vegas adventures to introducing her to my loved ones, our focus remains on cherishing each other's company and continuing to strengthen our bond.
In the end, our love story isn't just about overcoming distance or cultural barriers—it's about celebrating the beauty of love in all its forms and embracing the richness that comes from loving someone beyond borders.